Top
Search TNTML
Fun With OKCupid

True life adventures in online dating with OKCupid

Fun With Mirror

Real life dating reviews on the relationship review application

<editorsnote> Hi, I'm Jen Friel, and we here at TNTML examine the lives of nerds outside of the basements and into the social media, and dating world.  That, and we say the word fuck a lot - hope that doesn't offend you. Haha who am I kidding, I don't care. </editorsnote>

 

Powered by Squarespace
Unapologetically Awesome Sites

TechTheBest.com - More social media musings from Jay, the master! 

Action Flick Chick - Stay up to date on the latest from our Hot Nerd of the Micro Nano

Married in My Mind - What happens when the wedding doesn't?

AnnieAutomatic.com - Get to know the band behind the epicly epic epic Ustream. AWESSSOMMEEEEE!!!!

The Action Room - The leaders in all things Geek Radio!

TheArtOfCharm - Our resident dating expert keeps it real ... like really, really, real

Jed's Jerky - Who doesn't love some JERKY?

Musicwire.tv - The new world leader in music news!!

LAIdiot.com - LOVE @LAIdiot ... It's hollywood told by a single dude with nothin' to lose! =)

Tremendous News - EPIC site! Go. Now.

Mashable - My religion

BeerDiplomacyTV.com - Beer & Politics. 'Nuff said! 

« And now, a word from Sheldon... | Main | #Dexter S05E01 »
Monday
Sep272010

Update! He Responds #TrueStory: I was dumped by my fake internet boyfriend

Before you read this post, please check out the original here.

 

Wow. What a day ... I got an overwhelming response via email, Facebook, and Twitter regarding this story. Here was his response to the post:

 

 

 

It says, and I quote:

 

 



I understand you need to make money and need to keep people interested in what you're doing. And I even get that you're bitter. But bringing my friends and family into this is beyond unacceptable.

I have not had any contact with you for a year, even though you presumably constantly stalked me here. I've looked the other way when you talked shit about me to one person, because frankly I don't care to get back in contact with you. Especially after you told me to "Get Over It" when I wouldn't give you my full attention due to my dad being in the hospital at the time. To which you then denied ever saying and conveniently responded you "blacked it out" when I confronted you about it.

You need to back down. Your personal crusade against me can attract interest for a couple of days, which I'm guessing is why you're even talking about it. I get it, the juicier the gossip the better. But know this, I have no qualms of putting you on blast either. If you continue to spread your lies, I will make sure you're the next Ke$ha/Paris Hilton and put ALL your shit out there for all your "sponsors".

Oh and as proof you're just creatively pulling shit out of your ass- you got my birthday wrong. You don't want to fuck with me. You KNOW what I have.


Read more: http://blogs.myspace.com/index.cfm?fuseaction=blog.view&friendId=242193519&blogId=539470974#ixzz10lnuk0zB


 

Few things here worth noting ... he took his default pic down. If someone claimed I wasn't who I was, the FIRST thing I would do is get on Dailybooth, grab my phone and take a pic, whatever ... I would post SOMETHNG, SOMEWHERE with my image and likeness with a sign saying "yep, it's me." That right there to me, IMHO is an admission of guilt.

 

Furthermore, shit on me? Oh please, that's why I'm a lifecaster. I have absolutely, absolutely, absolutely, nothing to hide. Literally - dude, I even post my sexual exploits on this site, I really just don't care. No, let me say this again - I REALLY DO NOT CARE. I live life completely shameless. I have to, my happiness is dependent upon it.

 

If anything, you were my biggest, deepest, darkest secret.

 

How the hell could I have been so dumb to fall for something like it - and even when I KNEW that this was fake, I kept it going to protect my ego as I had so many of my friends and family invested in our relationship as well. You were the mistake, you were the problem ... I was just too ashamed to think that something like this could ever happen to me.

 

I was very honest when I said I wanted nothing to do with you - and even advised the girl involved in this as well to do the same. Just let it go. I already have plenty of information thanks to the readers of this site, who yes - are all nerds. We get the internet in ways you could never imagine. I really do not wish you ill, in fact, I will wish you well. I am very sorry that you felt it was necessary for someone to love you only under those set of circumstances. I can't even fathom what makes someone want to do something like this, but I thank you, because you have made me that much smarter, and wiser, at that much younger of an age. You were actually one of the inspirations for this post, btw! My awesome is organic, and something that I let you take a piece of for way too long.

 

Lesson learned: Trust your gut. If something doesn't feel right, know without a shadow of a doubt that you need to follow it. Life is too short to be caught up in things like this - and thankfully today, I hold my head high knowing that I have no shame. Thank you, nerds!!!

 

 

 

 

 

 

Be well, Dare. #Namaste

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

Reader Comments (2)

Ahahaha, like those 'threats' will make you back off. How did he found out anyway? By googling himself? XD

Also, Eminem is perfect for this post! :D

September 28, 2010 | Unregistered CommenterUla

Four words: Hiding in plain sight.

September 28, 2010 | Unregistered CommenterAustin Covello

PostPost a New Comment

Enter your information below to add a new comment.

My response is on my own website »
Author Email (optional):
Author URL (optional):
Post:
 
Some HTML allowed: <a href="" title=""> <abbr title=""> <acronym title=""> <b> <blockquote cite=""> <code> <em> <i> <strike> <strong>